*Although we wrote this post together, we have chosen to present the following through Mom’s eyes.
Stigma surrounding suicide
Since the day my daughter attempted to take her own life, an unspoken stigma has followed her—a weight that lingers, even though few acknowledge it outright.
I see it in the friendships that have faded, in the absence of support from family and the medical community. It’s in the silence, in the way people skirt around the conversation, unwilling or unable to engage with the reality of suicide.
When the topic is raised, responses often sound sympathetic, even compassionate. Yet, beneath the surface, there is discomfort—a quiet resistance to discussing something so painful, so misunderstood.
Too many still struggle to recognize mental health conditions as real illnesses. There is a belief that depression, anxiety, or intrusive thoughts can simply be willed away. And if they can’t, then surely a single pill must be the solution.
But mental health deserves more than silence, avoidance, or quick fixes. It deserves acknowledgment, understanding, and the courage to have honest conversations. Only then can we begin to truly support those who live with its challenges every day.
Mental illness and stigma
The preconceived notions that I mentioned above, helps lead to the stigma surrounding those affected by suicide.
And, of course, simple ignorance plays a role as well.
We live in a society that preaches to keep uplifting people around and those who need support, far away.
We are filled by misinformed beliefs surrounding mental health and treatment.
We are surrounded by comments about those beliefs. Hurtful comments such as more inpatient facilities are needed to keep “those people” off the streets. Instead of informed conversations to establish actual treatments for people suffering from mental health pain. Pain that is real, both mentally and physically.
The fact is that mental illness isn’t any different from any other disease or illness such as cancer, heart disease, diabetes, etc.
Suicide is not a failure, nor is it a reflection of weakness. It is not a mark of disgrace or shame, and it does not define a person’s worth.
Help stop the stigma surrounding suicide, it’s that simple!
No one should have to bear the weight of stigma for the pain they have endured. Instead, they deserve compassion, support, and the recognition that their journey—no matter how difficult—is valid and meaningful.
Learn the facts about suicide and mental health
Recognize that someone may need your support
Realize that everyone is different
Acknowledge that mental health doesn’t define a person
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Note: All information in “Nikki’s Story and Mom’s Story” are based on detail journals covering seven years of Nikki’s life on prescription drugs.
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